IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective
IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective
Latest Episodes
Stop Waiting for the “Better Version” of Your Teen
What if your teen still wants to connect with you, just not in the way you expect?A lot of parents think, “My teen wants nothing to do with me.”He stays in his room.He gives one-word answers.He wears headphones.He play...
Stop Trying to Control Your Teen. Start Leading Instead.
If you feel like you're always reminding, arguing, or trying to get your teen to make better choices, this episode is for you.Many parents think they need to control their teen to help them succeed. But the harder you try to control them...
Why Most Parenting Advice Makes Teen Problems Worse
Most parenting advice sounds good.Be more consistent.Set better rules.Use better consequences.Say the right words.Stay calm.But what if the real problem is that most advice points you at the wrong person?In ...
How This Teen Rebuilt Trust With His Parents
What do you do when your teen wants more freedom, but the trust is broken?In this episode, I talk with Brayden, a teen I’ve coached who went from almost no trust with his parents to earning more freedom, more peace, and a much better rel...
Fan Mail
I thought I'd really learned & implemented the T chart of control. After listening to this last podcast, I can see I have more work to do. Too much energy is going into my 18 yr old. I feel like I can let natural consequences happen, but then I catastrophize and still intervene. I justify it because the decision my adult child makes still affects me because they live at home. ex: I don't wake them for work & they get fired, loose the privilege of the car ( because they don't have $ for gas/ insurance), go into a deep depression, and possibly start using drugs again. That is what happens in my brain everyday when I know they should be leaving for work. This has been the cycle and it is too much to deal with again so I try to stop it from happening. The longer they can go with a steady job and no drugs they better it is for everyone.
Temecula, California