IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective
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317 episodes
How to Give Your Teen a Voice Without Letting Him Run the House
Giving your teen a voice can feel risky.You want him to learn responsibility, but you also do not want him running the house. You want less pushback, but you do not want to become a pushover.In this episode, Ben talks about how to...
When Your Teen Says “Later,” Ask This One Question
When your teen says, “I’ll do it later,” it can feel like they are ignoring you, avoiding responsibility, or trying to start a fight.But “later” does not have to turn into a power struggle.In this episode, I’ll show you one simple...
7 Ways To Overcome Mom Fatigue With Your Teen
Summer with your teen should not feel like a full-time job.But if you are always reminding, chasing, checking, nagging, and managing everything, it is no wonder you feel worn out.In this episode, Ben talks about 7 ways to overc...
Why Your Boundaries Keep Turning Into Battles
Do your boundaries with your teen always turn into fights?You ask him to get off the game, do his chores, go to bed, or follow a summer rule… and suddenly you are in another battle.In this episode, Ben explains why this happens. A...
The Real Reason You and Your Teen Keep Having the Same Fight
Do you and your teen keep having the same fight over and over again?Maybe it’s about chores, screen time, sleep, attitude, or video games. And with summer coming, you may already feel stressed about what’s ahead.In this episode, B...
How to Raise a More Resilient Teen
Is your teen struggling right now?Maybe he is stressed, frustrated, disappointed, or ready to give up. And as a parent, you may want to jump in and fix it.But what if your teen needs some struggle?In this episode, Ben and C...
The Real Reason Your Teen Won’t Go to Bed
Is your teen staying up too late, sleeping through alarms, and walking around tired all day?You might think your teen has a sleep problem.But what if sleep is not the real issue?In this episode, Ben and Cortni talk about th...
Your Teen Isn’t the Problem… You Are (Here’s Why)
If your teen keeps breaking the same rules… and nothing you try is working…this episode is for you.Most parents think they have a behavior problem.But that’s not the real issue.You don’t have a behavior prob...
Your Teen Isn’t Lazy… You’re Just Looking at It Wrong
Is your teen lazy… or are you just looking at it the wrong way?In this episode, we break down why your teen might not be motivated—and why it’s not what you think. Most teens aren’t lazy. They’re motivated by comfort, fun, and what matte...
Why Your Teen Wants Independence But Avoids Responsibility
In this episode, Ben and Nola Gephart talk about why teens want freedom but often avoid responsibility—and what parents can do about it. You’ll learn how to stop rescuing your teen, empower them to grow up, and help them earn independence the r...
Stop Repeating Yourself: Boundaries That Actually Work
If you feel like you’re repeating yourself every day—and your teen still doesn’t listen—this episode is for you.“Be home on time.”“Do your homework.”“Get off your phone.”And nothing changes.Most parents think they h...
This Book Wasn’t Written for Parents… But It Might Fix Your Relationship With Your Teen
What if your teen isn’t the problem?Most parenting advice tells you to fix their behavior.Get them to listen. Change their attitude.But what if that’s exactly why it’s not working?In this episode, I sit down with Randon...
Why Saying “I’m Sorry” Isn’t Enough With Your Teen
You said “I’m sorry”… But your teen is still upset.Now what?Most parents think an apology should fix things. But with teens, it often doesn’t—and that’s where the frustration starts.In this episode, I’ll s...
Why Your Teen Feels Disconnected From You (And How to Fix It)
Do you feel like your teen is pulling away?They don’t talk.They stay in their room.And nothing seems to work.Most parents think the problem is their teen.But what if it’s not?In this episode, I share why teen...
How to Build a Relationship Your Teen Always Comes Back To (Let Go of Control)
Does it feel like your teen is pulling away from you?Most parents respond by trying to control things. They give more advice, fix problems, and try to guide every decision.But control often pushes teens farther away.In this...
The Emotional Awareness Skill That Makes Parenting Easier
When your teen melts down emotionally, most parents react the wrong way.But what if the most powerful parenting skill isn’t fixing your teen’s emotions?In this episode, we explore the emotional awareness skill that can make parenting te...
Stop Mirroring Your Teen’s Bad Behavior (Do This Instead)
Do you ever find yourself reacting just like your teen?They get angry… and you get angry. They panic… and you panic. They shut down… and you shut down.Most parents don’t mean to do this. But when we mirror
5 Myths About Teen Resilience (And What Builds It)
Are teens today really less resilient? Or have we misunderstood what resilience actually is?In this episode, I break down 5 common myths about teen resilience that many parents believe. These myths can lead to more fear, more panic, and ...
The Emotional Skill Every Parent Thinks They Have
Most parents believe they’re emotionally intelligent — but parenting teens reveals the truth fast.In this episode of IMPACT! Parenting with Perspective, we break down the emotional skill every parent thinks they have (but usu...
When Your Teen Won’t Change… Start Here Instead
What do you do when your teen won’t listen, won’t change, or won’t accept help? Maybe they refuse coaching, therapy, or even a simple conversation.In this episode, Ben Pugh talks to parents who feel stuck and worn out. He shares...
Are Phones and Social Media Really Driving Teen Suicide?
Many parents today are scared.Everywhere you look, there are headlines saying phones, social media, AI, and screen time are driving teen suicide. It can feel overwhelming. And when parents feel afraid, they often start parenting from pan...
Feeling Exhausted? Here's How to Feel Better Fast
Parenting a teen can feel draining. You might feel tired, frustrated, or stuck in stress mode.If that’s you, this episode is here to help.In this conversation, Ben and Cortni talk about why parenting feels so exhaustin...
Blowups. Overreactions. Now What Do I Do?
Blowups. Overreactions. Now What Do I Do?Every parent has a moment they wish they could take back. You raise your voice. You overreact. You walk away feeling awful.In this episode, Ben Pugh and Cortni talk about wh...