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IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective

This podcast will help parents of teens keep life's struggles as a teen, and as a parent of a teen, in perspective. Parents will learn real tools to help them help their teens. They will learn how to build a rock solid relationship with their teen so they will have a powerful impact and a positive influence on their teen's life.

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IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective

Stop Trying to Change Your Teen and Empower Them

September 05, 2024 • Ben Pugh • Episode 222

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Are you frustrated by parenting advice that promises to make your teen obey or trust you? In this eye-opening episode, Ben, a former foster parent and experienced coach, challenges the myth of teen control and offers a transformative perspective on parenting.

Discover why trying to control your teen is counterproductive and learn about:

The T-Chart of Control: A simple tool to identify what's within your influence
The Consequence Quadrant: A powerful framework for discussing outcomes with your teen
Real-life examples of parents shifting from control to empowerment
Practical strategies to let go of control without losing your parental role

Ben shares candid stories from his experience, including a memorable conversation with an anesthesiologist dad about the absurdity of total teen control. He offers insights on how small mindset shifts can dramatically improve your relationship with your teen.

If you're tired of power struggles and ready for a more harmonious approach to parenting, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to learn how to empower both yourself and your teen, becoming the supportive parent you aspire to be.

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